Have you asked your daughter, how dad cares for her when you are not around? Or as her mom you just rely on things you only see? Have you ever wondered how your good husband treats your only daughter at times you are away from them? Did you take a while to observe them or you always cram to finish the chores as you will be late for your appointments, have to beat a deadline, and so forth? Think once, twice or more!
Many times have we heard cases of abuse inflicted by parents on their kids and these things really affect us - very much!
You cannot deny that you likewise get angry when you know some people maltreat or abuse their children. We pity those abused, get angry with the abuser and encourage everyone to report such kind of maltreatment.
Advice and support groups have mushroomed in the web for such causes but how aware are you that this is not happening inside your own home?
Let us be sensitive enough to detect even a very minute indication that a kind of abuse is already happening to our children. Just that your partner is good to you means he is the same with your child. No, I am not saying your husband will do such a silly act but always remember – prevention is always the best.
Let us not distance ourselves from our kid as we should be the first to know if anything untoward is happening to her. Let us have regular “friendly chat” with our young adolescent. She needs us to build her self confidence, more than her teachers and peers can do, as we can understand her better than anybody else. Let us give her quality time as this will guide her as she enters the path to the unkind world where she will be inclined to be more of a prey rather than a tormenter.
Let us not just wait for the time till our daughter sheds tears just because we did not notice earlier the minor signs of abuse being inflicted by none other than but her “loving” dad.


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